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“Mind Your Business” or Be Your Brother’s Keeper? The Spiritual Danger of Staying Silent
Scripture Anchor: Galatians 6:1 NLT “Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path…” The phrase “mind your business” has become common in today’s world, but in the Body of Christ, we need to ask: is that really biblical? Now let’s be clear. This is not about being messy, prideful, judgmental, or walking around trying to expose people. The Bible tells us to examine ou

DeVonn Barlow
Jun 283 min read


When Love Becomes an Idol: Putting God Back in His Proper Place
Mama Shelia❤️ There was a conversation my mother in law shared with me that truly shook my heart. She told me about her first husband. After they got married, he moved her to Tampa, and only seven months later, he passed away. In her grief, she cried out to the Lord asking, “Why would You allow this to happen?” And she said the Lord responded: “Because I had to move what you placed before Me. You said you loved Me, but you loved him more.” When she shared that with me, she sa

DeVonn Barlow
Jun 243 min read


Sisterhood in Christ: More Than a Gathering
What happens when women from different generations and walks of life come together with open Bibles and surrendered hearts?

DeVonn Barlow
Jun 143 min read


Fighting the Right Way: From Arguing to Armor
There was a time when I thought I was fighting the right way. If something felt off… I addressed it. If I felt hurt… I reacted. If there was tension… I argued my point. And in my mind, I justified it. “I’m just speaking up.” “I’m not going to be disrespected.” “I’m defending myself.” But the truth? I was fighting a spiritual battle with carnal weapons. And I was losing. Arguing Feels Powerful, But It’s Actually a Trap Let’s be real, arguing can feel like control. You feel hea

DeVonn Barlow
Jun 106 min read


When Loving People Starts Draining You: Stop Carrying People Who Refuse to Walk
There comes a point in life where constantly trying to save people, guide people, mentor people, and pull people toward better becomes emotionally exhausting. Especially when the people you are pouring into have every opportunity to change, every resource available, every example in front of them… and still choose dysfunction. It hurts differently when you genuinely love people. You pray for them. You encourage them. You answer late night phone calls. You give advice. You sha

DeVonn Barlow
Jun 13 min read


What Happens When One Spouse Truly Wants God and the Other One Wants Religion?
There are some hard conversations the body of Christ avoids because they make people uncomfortable. Marriage is one of them. We often hear people say that adultery is the only biblical reason for divorce, and while scripture absolutely addresses sexual immorality seriously, I want to challenge your thinking for a moment: What happens when two people are still married physically, but spiritually they are walking in two completely different directions? What happens when one spo

Te'Asha Heard
May 244 min read


When Love Has No Direction: Stop Sitting in Relationships Filled With Confusion
There was a season in my life where I sat in a relationship for almost five years filled with confusion, disappointment, and emotional exhaustion. It was a time that seemed to stretch on indefinitely, marked by a series of ups and downs that left me feeling drained and uncertain about my future. I was a single mother of two children when we met, navigating the complexities of parenting while trying to rebuild my own life after a divorce that had turned my world upside down. I

DeVonn Barlow
May 115 min read


Respect, Forgiveness, and the Love That Frees Us
Respect is something we all want, but it’s also something we are all called to give. Not just to the people who treat us well. Not just to those who agree with us. But to everyone. In marriage. In friendships. On the job. Even to the waitress or waiter serving your table. Because respect is not about who they are, it reflects who you are in Christ. Respect Starts with Love ❤️ The truth is, we are called to love people, even when it’s hard. The Bible reminds us: “Love your nei

DeVonn Barlow
Apr 304 min read


More Than Stereotypes: When Her Desire Is Stronger
Breaking the silence on intimacy, expectations, and God’s design for marriage We don’t talk about sex enough in a healthy, honest, and God-honoring way when it comes to marriage. And when we do, the conversation is usually one-sided. Most of the time, we hear the same narrative: the husband desires intimacy, and the wife isn’t interested. But what about when the roles are reversed? What about the women who have a stronger desire than their husbands? The wives who long for int

DeVonn Barlow
Apr 203 min read
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