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They Belong to God First: Raising Children to Know the Lord
One of the greatest responsibilities God gives parents is not simply to raise good children, successful children, or even happy children, but children who know Him. Our sons and daughters are gifts from the Lord, but they do not ultimately belong to us. They belong to God, and our assignment is to steward them well and point them back to the One who created them. Scripture reminds us: “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him.”— Psalm 127:3 In a worl

DeVonn Barlow
2 days ago3 min read
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Grace for the Mother I Never Thought I’d Be
🌸 There was a time in my life when I truly did not want children. Motherhood was never something I dreamed about or planned for the way other women sometimes do. Yet here I stand, almost 36 years old, with three beautiful girls and nearly fourteen and a half years of motherhood behind me. And all I can say is: Lord, thank You. Thank You for keeping me. Thank You for growing me. 🌼 Thank You for never removing Your hand from my life, even during the seasons when I was far fro

DeVonn Barlow
May 92 min read
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When Ambition Isn’t Strength, but Fear in Disguise (A Mother’s Day Reflection)
Motherhood It will pull something out of you that nothing else can. It will make you stronger. More alert. More protective. More driven than you’ve ever been before. And somewhere in that process, many of us step into what the world celebrates as ambition. We become the woman who can do it all. The one with the plan, the backup plan, and the backup to the backup plan. The one stacking degrees, certifications, skills, and opportunities, just in case. And from the outside, it l

DeVonn Barlow
May 94 min read
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Parenting After Divorce (Or break-up): Healing, Co-Parenting, and Finding Your Rhythm Again
Parenting doesn’t come with a manual… and it definitely doesn’t come with instructions for what to do after divorce. I’ve lived it. I’ve walked through single parenting. I’ve navigated co-parenting. And now I’m learning how to parent again within a new marriage. Each season stretched me in a different way, but every season taught me something I needed. 1. Parenting After Divorce (or break-up): The Emotional Shift Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage, and breaking up with child

DeVonn Barlow
Apr 253 min read
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Discipleship Starts At Home
“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations…” – Matthew 28:19 (ESV) We often hear this call and immediately think about the world, our communities, our workplaces, strangers we may encounter. But before we ever step outside to disciple others, we have to look inside our homes. Because the truth is this: our first ministry is our children. They are the ones watching us every single day. They see the old version of us, and they witness the transformation when we give our li

DeVonn Barlow
Apr 224 min read
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